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		<title>By: Sylvia</title>
		<link>http://mywifequitherjob.com/dealing-with-people-who-doubt-your-business-ideas/comment-page-1/#comment-3091</link>
		<dc:creator>Sylvia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 16:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously-- having people doubt your ideas, strategies, and basically self worth is the pits. My dad has been giving me flack about my new business, but I&#039;ve decided to use that as fuel for my fire! Just helps me get where I&#039;m going faster. 
-Sylvia
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously&#8211; having people doubt your ideas, strategies, and basically self worth is the pits. My dad has been giving me flack about my new business, but I&#8217;ve decided to use that as fuel for my fire! Just helps me get where I&#8217;m going faster.<br />
-Sylvia<br />
<a href="http://www.padrons.com" rel="nofollow">Padrons</a></p>
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		<title>By: nickg</title>
		<link>http://mywifequitherjob.com/dealing-with-people-who-doubt-your-business-ideas/comment-page-1/#comment-965</link>
		<dc:creator>nickg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 06:22:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>there are awful people out there, don&#039;t pay attention to them, ur success is in ur own hands.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>there are awful people out there, don&#8217;t pay attention to them, ur success is in ur own hands.</p>
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		<title>By: How To Decide On Becoming An Entrepreneur &#124; My Super-Charged Life</title>
		<link>http://mywifequitherjob.com/dealing-with-people-who-doubt-your-business-ideas/comment-page-1/#comment-825</link>
		<dc:creator>How To Decide On Becoming An Entrepreneur &#124; My Super-Charged Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 11:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Well, Steve at MyWifeQuitHerJob.com provides some great insights on how to handle this in his article, Dealing With People Who Doubt Your Business Ideas. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Well, Steve at MyWifeQuitHerJob.com provides some great insights on how to handle this in his article, Dealing With People Who Doubt Your Business Ideas. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Weekly Roundup - Homemade Ice Cream Edition : Cash Money Life</title>
		<link>http://mywifequitherjob.com/dealing-with-people-who-doubt-your-business-ideas/comment-page-1/#comment-821</link>
		<dc:creator>Weekly Roundup - Homemade Ice Cream Edition : Cash Money Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 11:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Dealing With People Who Doubt Your Business Ideas. The advice in this article applies to more than just running a business - surround yourself with positivity, not negativity. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Dealing With People Who Doubt Your Business Ideas. The advice in this article applies to more than just running a business &#8211; surround yourself with positivity, not negativity. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: PizzaForADream</title>
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		<dc:creator>PizzaForADream</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 18:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t let the turkeys get you down!!  The minute you raise your head above the crow, you&#039;re going to have tomatoes thrown at you!  Great insights into the negativity we all deal with as entrepreneurs.  I&#039;ve found that the best way to handle this is to only share my dreams and successes with those willing to help and support me.  For everyone else, it&#039;s none of their business.  All they want to do is keep you where you&#039;re at so they don&#039;t look bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t let the turkeys get you down!!  The minute you raise your head above the crow, you&#8217;re going to have tomatoes thrown at you!  Great insights into the negativity we all deal with as entrepreneurs.  I&#8217;ve found that the best way to handle this is to only share my dreams and successes with those willing to help and support me.  For everyone else, it&#8217;s none of their business.  All they want to do is keep you where you&#8217;re at so they don&#8217;t look bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 18:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can so relate to the The Mockers and just about everyone else you mentioned for that matter.  Instead of giving useful feedback or just wishing me good luck, they have to find a way to tear you down. Thanks for brining this up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can so relate to the The Mockers and just about everyone else you mentioned for that matter.  Instead of giving useful feedback or just wishing me good luck, they have to find a way to tear you down. Thanks for brining this up.</p>
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		<title>By: PennySeeds.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>PennySeeds.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 11:52:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate those people, but what I hate more is that some of them probably stopped me from succeeding in a lot of areas in life. 

Even &#039;failure&#039; is valuable, because it&#039;s a learning experience. Many of the most famous entrepreneurs in the world didn&#039;t even make it on their first go. They tried many things, before they eventually got to that which made them wealthy business men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate those people, but what I hate more is that some of them probably stopped me from succeeding in a lot of areas in life. </p>
<p>Even &#8216;failure&#8217; is valuable, because it&#8217;s a learning experience. Many of the most famous entrepreneurs in the world didn&#8217;t even make it on their first go. They tried many things, before they eventually got to that which made them wealthy business men.</p>
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		<title>By: shea</title>
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		<dc:creator>shea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>way off subject here, .....................but
lately, been so moved by the old Alice in Chains.
Miss Layne.
You?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>way off subject here, &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;but<br />
lately, been so moved by the old Alice in Chains.<br />
Miss Layne.<br />
You?</p>
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		<title>By: Ethan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ethan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 05:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Keep in mind that, since 90% do fail, there probably *are* serious flaws to be pointed out in the vast majority of small business plans. My first question to would-be entrepreneurs is usually &quot;what is your plan for acquiring customers?&quot; Very often this is not something they have spent the bulk of their effort on planning, nor will it be what they spend the bulk of their time executing. That&#039;s going to be a problem for most of them. The second question is usually &quot;how is your start-up phase going to be funded?&quot; Only if they have good answers to those questions do I ask for any detail on the product or service they are offering, or their expense and revenue forecasts.

That said, assuming that the 10% which succeed do so because their plans had *no* flaws is probably just as ridiculous. That 10% is more likely to be people who have failed before and learned their lessons the hard way, or who are quick learners that rapidly gain perspective and adjust to the realities they didn&#039;t anticipate.

It&#039;s also a mistake to assume that the 90% that fail were a waste of time. Only if a small business creates a large debt that follows the entrepreneur, or destroys a friendship or family relationship while it fails, is an entrepreneur likely to truly regret their attempt. The rest learn a great deal and move on, whether to another start-up or to something more traditional. People with business experience and an entrepreneurial spirit make the BEST EMPLOYEES EVER. They understand the realities faced by their employer, they know what it means to be fully responsible for something, and they are intrinsically motivated to create value. That&#039;s hard to beat with mere experience in most positions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Keep in mind that, since 90% do fail, there probably *are* serious flaws to be pointed out in the vast majority of small business plans. My first question to would-be entrepreneurs is usually &#8220;what is your plan for acquiring customers?&#8221; Very often this is not something they have spent the bulk of their effort on planning, nor will it be what they spend the bulk of their time executing. That&#8217;s going to be a problem for most of them. The second question is usually &#8220;how is your start-up phase going to be funded?&#8221; Only if they have good answers to those questions do I ask for any detail on the product or service they are offering, or their expense and revenue forecasts.</p>
<p>That said, assuming that the 10% which succeed do so because their plans had *no* flaws is probably just as ridiculous. That 10% is more likely to be people who have failed before and learned their lessons the hard way, or who are quick learners that rapidly gain perspective and adjust to the realities they didn&#8217;t anticipate.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also a mistake to assume that the 90% that fail were a waste of time. Only if a small business creates a large debt that follows the entrepreneur, or destroys a friendship or family relationship while it fails, is an entrepreneur likely to truly regret their attempt. The rest learn a great deal and move on, whether to another start-up or to something more traditional. People with business experience and an entrepreneurial spirit make the BEST EMPLOYEES EVER. They understand the realities faced by their employer, they know what it means to be fully responsible for something, and they are intrinsically motivated to create value. That&#8217;s hard to beat with mere experience in most positions.</p>
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		<title>By: Vincent</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vincent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Steve,

Great article! Whenever we wanted to start something that normal people wouldn&#039;t even think of doing, they always try to bring us down with their words. The best thing to do is to ignore them and always believe in our own capability. Thanks for the article and consider it stumbled. :)

Cheers
Vincent
Personal Development Blogger</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Steve,</p>
<p>Great article! Whenever we wanted to start something that normal people wouldn&#8217;t even think of doing, they always try to bring us down with their words. The best thing to do is to ignore them and always believe in our own capability. Thanks for the article and consider it stumbled. <img src='http://mywifequitherjob.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Cheers<br />
Vincent<br />
Personal Development Blogger</p>
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