The Secrets To Being Successful With Any Business You Launch

After starting several businesses on the side, helping others with their own online stores and running this blog for a couple of years now, I’ve come to recognize certain patterns and character traits that define success and failure. Running a successful business isn’t just about luck. It’s not just about taking the leap of faith. It’s not about having the perfect plan or finding the perfect niche. It’s about how you deal with problems as they arise. It’s about how you adapt to certain situations when things don’t go your way.

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The problem most new entrepreneurs face is that it’s hard to distinguish between good and bad investments of your time. It’s difficult to know when to go cheap and when to splurge. And for control freaks like myself, it’s overwhelming when you first realize that there are a bunch of problems you can’t fix on your own.

For me, nothing went as planned for any of my online ventures yet they all eventually turned out to be quite profitable. Even though I don’t consider myself an uber entrepreneur trying to start the next big company, I’ve come to realize that there are certain attributes and traits that can greatly increase your chances for business success at any level. Here’s what I’ve learned over the years running my various businesses.

Go In With An Open Mind

Probably the most important thing I’ve learned is to not rule out any strategy or plan of action no matter how you feel about it. Ultimately, your success is determined by what works and not your personal biases. I’ve helped many people with their online stores over the years and the ones who have failed to gain any traction with their businesses have been the ones who weren’t willing to try new things or invest additional money into making necessary improvements. Change is tough. I get it. But if you don’t change and adapt, you’re going to be overtaken.

For example, I had one reader email me wondering why their site wasn’t making any sales. And since I wanted to help, I wrote up a long email detailing what needed to change about his website in order for him to even have a chance for success. And even though I offered very detailed advice, the reader didn’t listen to a word I said. What’s worse is that he became extremely defensive and started attacking my suggestions! Just before writing this article, I went to check out his store and he still has the same crappy website up even though it’s been over a year since we spoke.

Don’t Be Cheap

Maybe it’s because I was brought up this way, but I’m pretty damn cheap. In general, I’m reluctant to buy or to sign up for anything that requires me to spend my hard earned cash especially if it’s for something that I can make or do myself. Specifically, I detest paying for services that require a monthly subscription fee. So whenever there’s a tool or a piece of software that is supposed to increase my business productivity, I either rationalize to myself why it’s a waste of money or I try to write the same piece of software by myself.

In fact, I would still be the same cheap bastard today if it weren’t for Aweber. For all of you that don’t know what Aweber is, it’s an email marketing service. When I first heard of Aweber, I could not understand why anyone would pay someone else to send email. After all, email is free and you can send as much as you want from your server without paying a dime. So, I tried to write my own email marketing software from scratch.

And guess what happened? All of the email coming from my crappy email program either got blocked or sent to spam no matter who I sent it to. Managing email campaigns became a nightmare. After keeping my mail program on life support for several months, I decided to sign up for an email marketing service and tried MailChimp. Why? Because MailChimp was FREE for the first 500 subscribers. Starting to see a pattern here?

After a while, I realized that Mailchimp wasn’t going to cut it for me either (You can read my full review of MailChimp Vs Aweber here), so I decided to shell out a whole dollar to try out Aweber. Man! What a difference it was. Customers actually were able to receive the emails I was sending. And there were a ton of features that would’ve taken me months to implement and test. In any case, signing up for Aweber opened my eyes and I realized that I shouldn’t be wasting time trying to reinvent the wheel.

Be Ready To Adapt Because Your Initial Plans Will Fail

When my wife and I first launched our online store, I had an elaborate plan to get customers in the door that I thought was foolproof! In fact, most of our early revenue assumptions hinged on this one strategy. The plan was to launch a bunch of Ebay auctions with our products, include a link to our online store in the item description and offer a discount if the purchase was made outside of Ebay.

That way, customers would shop at our online store directly and we could avoid Ebay’s ridiculous transaction fees. Little did I know that this was against Ebay’s policies. After almost getting our Ebay account banned, we frantically scrambled to come up with other traffic generation strategies. In fact, most of our initial customer acquisition plans failed and we had to start from scratch at least 2 or 3 times.

I had a similar experience when I first launched MyWifeQuitHerJob.com. I had an elaborate strategy to get traffic from social media sites such as Digg, StumbleUpon, Reddit etc… The master plan was to make as many friends as possible on Facebook and leverage these friends to help me vote my articles up.

Ultimately, this plan failed for 2 reasons. One, none of my friends knew what social media was and didn’t want to sign up a for a service they weren’t going to use. Two, nobody was willing to vote up my articles on a regular basis. In the end, I had to do a complete 180 and build up this blog the old fashioned way. I had to write good content, reach out to other bloggers and ingratiate myself within the blogging community.

Follow Through And Give It Time

Even though my wife and I managed to make 6 figures with our store in the span of a year, we almost called it quits after the first month or so. Sales were only coming in at a small trickle and we didn’t want to invest a lot of time into a business idea that couldn’t make a “full time income”. But I’m glad we stuck with it because business didn’t start growing exponentially until about the 6 month mark.

Same story with this blog. Traffic didn’t start picking up until well over the one year mark had passed. For a while, I wondered if anyone out there was reading my stuff at all. The point is that you need to be committed to whatever business you decide to pursue. Make sure you pick a business that you can or are willing to maintain for a very long time. Either make a long term commitment or don’t even bother trying.

The fact is that most people give up on their idea long before it has a chance to blossom. To a certain extent, the point at which your business will skyrocket is somewhat dependent on luck. Sometimes you just have to stick around long enough to cash in. For example, our online store got a huge boost when we were featured in Real Simple magazine. Randomly, someone over there contacted us asking to feature a few of our items and we happily obliged. Had we closed up shop early, we would have completely missed out on this free marketing opportunity.

Don’t Be Stagnant

Bottom line, the secret to success is to constantly try new things and to avoid becoming stagnant. What I love about entrepreneurship and business is that the landscape is constantly changing. You have to try hard and keep up otherwise someone else will overtake you.

So whatever you do, don’t coddle yourself. If s$%@ ain’t happening, don’t rationalize it. If things aren’t working out now, they aren’t going to magically get better without your intervention. The willingness to change makes all the difference.

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31 thoughts on “The Secrets To Being Successful With Any Business You Launch”

  1. Great article. We all have many excuses for why something isn’t working. We continually try to justify it instead of making changes. Change is hard, but really the only answer if you want to move forward.

    1. @Bettie
      Thanks! A lot of people as me for advice and want me to tell them what a great job they are doing and that there’s nothing wrong. Most people don’t want to hear the bad stuff.

  2. I’m treating my online endeavor much the same way you have treated yours. I’m using MailChimp for exactly the same reason you did although now the freebie is up to 2000. I had one minor problem with them but that has been straightened out. Nevertheless, I have re-bookmarked Aweber to check it out again.

    1. @Glynis
      I didn’t mean to imply that MailChimp is bad, but if you read my review, the way Mailchimp dealt with my account was not stellar. In any case, if you plan on doing any affiliate marketing whatsoever, MailChimp is absolutely the wrong service to use.

  3. Great post! I found your site today via my friend @gregrollett on Twitter. Your article is spot on. Giving up is what plagues so many entrepreneurs. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. And of course you hit it on the nail when you say, Don’t Be Stagnant.

    1. @Madalyn
      Yeah. I seen Greg pop in and out from time to time. I’m glad that he referred you over here. As long as you keep trying new things with your business, something is bound to stick.

  4. Great article Steve! Just the advice I needed today, especially about being cheap (I think it’s an Asian thing, I can say that cuz I’m Asian) and following through and giving it time. I always get a good chuckle from your self-deprecating sense of humour too :)

    1. Hey Holly, thanks for stopping by. I’m actually still working on my cheapness problem. Perhaps I should start a cheapness anonymous club for small business owners. Fortunately, my wife balances me out

  5. Thanks Steve for a great article. You continue to give the newbies reason to hope. Quite unlike those so called experts that want you to buy thousands of dollars of programs that often don’t amount to much. TDKmarketing.com is up on the web and I’m looking forward to great success reports. Let me know what you think about the site including pointers. I’m open to having your offers linked to my site as well.

    1. Hey Ike
      Good luck with your website! One thing I noticed right off the bat is that your title and meta descriptions aren’t optimized on your site yet but I’m sure you’ll get to it. Take care!

  6. Hey Steve,
    Thanks for the great info. I work for a company and do all they web, social and media marketing, but have now decided to do something similar to yourself and create a site for the wife. keep doing what you do, it keeps me inspired.

    1. @Ibbo
      Thanks for the kind words….The things we do for our wives…They are lucky to be married to us aren’t they?

  7. Steve, thanks for another great post. My wife and I are about 7 months into a new online business and pretty much everything you wrote rings true with me (I was nodding my head in agreement as I read!).

    Its funny because some things seem almost contradictory on the surface. Like “Follow through and give it time” and “Don’t be stagnant”/ be willing to change.

    But really they reveal the dynamic nature of running your own business. Its a balancing act for sure. Thanks again Steve.

    1. Hey Scott
      Your site looks really good! Love your tees! It always makes me happy to hear about other husband and wife business owners. Hope everything works out for you.

  8. Hi I found your site via BizSugar. It is easy to become stubborn and stagnant and as a result not accomplish much in your biz. Thanks for the reminder. Cheers!

    1. Hey Torrey
      Now I know why I submit my articles to BizSugar. Pleasure to meet you!

  9. Chris says:

    Another excellent article Steve. I appreciate all that you do.

    1. Hey Chris,
      Thanks for stopping by. Oh and keep up with the jokes during class. They keep me on my toes

  10. Chris says:

    So much pressure now…

  11. I think that’s very true about giving things time. Of course that principle applied before the internet as well, but now it’s even more relevant. SEO requires a lot of patience. You can do heaps of link building and content creation, but it can take several months for all that work to kick in fully.

  12. Awesome advice Steve! Especially the part about “Give it time.” I’m a little over a year into my online business and was ready to quit after just a few months. I stuck it out, took many of your suggestions, and now business is growing each month!

  13. Very interesting. Success is everyone’s dream. I agree. We all have many excuses for why something isn’t working. But the key to success is being hardworking no more excuses and always have a solution. Thanks for the share. Great job.

  14. Hi Steve, I wondered how much time you spent to complete this intense article? Thanks for your sincere sharing in this article. I’ve bookmarked your site and will come back to your article when available.

  15. Bill says:

    Hi,
    I just started reading some of your blogs and really enjoy some of the
    thoughts you are sharing.

  16. Hi Steve,
    What a wonderful site! I have been toying with the idea of selling online for quite sometime. I’m a single mother of two girls and have been managing other firm’s websites for around 6 years now. I know what it takes to create a site, just need to dedicate time to finding a niche for myself. Bookmarked your site and am creating my own blog today to try and encourage myself to keep going like the tortoise…Thanks for your wonderful articles!

    1. Awesome! I’m glad that you’ve enjoyed what you’ve read!

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